Dear Rebecca

When given an opportunity to love

rebecca — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 05:30:52 +0000

We wonder if we are worthy of love or will love ever find us. We may punish ourselves for the mistakes we’ve made in our past relationships, and wish we had an opportunity to do it over again. God gives us opportunities each day to embrace love, show love and receive love. Passing a smile to someone walking by, or giving a compliment to another. Buying a cup of coffee for a co-worker or sharing a hug with someone. Listening to the birds singing at sunrise or a maybe watching a sunset at dusk. These are many opportunities to experience the exchange of love. Or next time, share an “I love you” with someone you love.

Often times we are held back in life…

rebecca — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 16:51:03 +0000

Often times, we are held back in life by something unseen, unaware of the roadblock in our lives. This “thing” that feels like an invisible cement wall is hindering our view, our perception, our reality, our path and most importantly, our happiness. It’s planted root and becomes larger each day, somehow enabling a feeling of safety, while we watch life pass us by.

It appears through excuses, hesitation, argument, resistance, broken relationships, lack of intimacy, unhappiness, and the list goes on… Is something hold you back from speaking your mind, telling your boss what you really think, doing what you love, or even better, fully giving yourself to the person you love?

The only way to eliminate fear is to walk through the smog and trust the process. To acknowledge it and know that walking though the door of the unknown, is far more rewarding, than playing it safe. Watching your true happiness skate by slowly kills our spirit because we choose not to take a risk. With risk offers an opportunity for change, an opportunity for growth and true happiness. What are you willing to risk today?

A client wrote Dear Rebecca I’m having difficulty…

rebecca — Thu, 06 Oct 2011 04:05:24 +0000

A client wrote: Dear Rebecca, I’m having difficulty in my relationship. My boyfriend and I have had some issues over the last year. He’s not the best communicator and I sometimes try to force the issue, in hopes we can talk. Every time I want to speak to him about our relationship, he pretty much evades the subject. I’m always left guessing.

In love and confused.

Perspective is relative…

rebecca — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 19:00:26 +0000

Perspective is relative. The way we rationalize a situation to make it “alright” is based on our own reality. If our reality is skewed, our perception is skewed. If one operates from a place of manipulation, it is a form of weakness, control and fear. If one must manipulate, they are fearful. What are they fearful of? Maybe exposure. What does it create? A momentary distraction away from the REAL situation or issue.

“White lies” are FEAR based. The truth one chooses not to see, disclose or surrender to is FEAR based. However, TRUTH will ALWAYS unfold at the perfect time in our lives. It’s the way of the Universe. TFH.

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rebecca — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 18:55:49 +0000

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Love, Sex, Intimacy

rebecca — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 20:20:29 +0000

Without opening your heart and mind. Your experience of Love, Sex and Intimacy feel empty. Without letting go of the past, forgiving yourself for your own mistakes, or forgiving another for theirs, prevents a fulfilling experience in life. Holding back from another because of fear of rejection limits your experience and exchange of an authentic relationship.

You have the choice to hang on to old patterns and fears keeping you prisoner of your own reality. Or, you can choose to let go of fear and live authentically right now.

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rebecca — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 07:02:36 +0000

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